Always curious
I’m always curious and always looking to learn new things, and I’m just as curious about the people I work with. I ask every mentee, “Where do you want to go, and why does it matter to you?” People do their best work when it connects to something they want for themselves, so I start by helping them work out what that is, and then I teach, mentor, and guide them toward it.
Once you know your why, you also know what you want to avoid at all costs, and you still have to ask the hard questions, because you could be avoiding something due to subconscious prejudices that have no basis in reality. I play devil’s advocate to force us out of self-agreement and into seeing the opposite perspective, which is the best way I know to avoid circular thinking.